Tis the season to buy sh*t.
From Black Friday all the way through the New Year, its all about buying and receiving gifts – which can be a very nice thing, if youre getting things you actually want, that is.
But as we all know too well, most people arent the best gift givers. Its not that they dont try, they just dont know what we really want.
You know grandma is going to knit you that sweater, just like you know mom is going to get you yet another winter jacket, scarf orpairof gloves.
If youre lucky, theyll come with gift receipts.
But theres more to the holidays than simply spending money and giving/getting stuff. Its about showing those people who are most important to you how much you truly care for them. Its about spending time with those you love and enjoying the holiday season.
With that being said, there are a few things on your mans Holiday Wish List that you may really want to consider getting him.
Some men will be straight with you and tell you exactly what it is that they want, but many I know for a fact wont.
For that reason, Ive compiled a fail-safe Holiday Wish List thats guaranteed to make your boyfriend very happy this holiday season.
But then again, maybe hes been on Santas naughty list. Ill let you decide.
Of course, this one is first on the list.Not to be clich, but its the honest truth.
There is no man in the world whowill say no to his girlfriend dressing up like naughty Ms. Claus, straddling his knees and telling him what she wants for Christmas.
Or maybe you guys arent intodressing up. That doesnt mean you cant have some fun. Maybe theres something hes been dying to try. Maybe theres something youve been dying to try. Chances are hell be okay with whatever.
The holiday season is a great time to explore your sexuality. Have a little fun. Theres no shame in being his Ho-Ho-Ho for the night.
Or maybe he likes it the other way around. Personally, Im not into being dominated, but I dont judge. Grab that candy cane, and give him a good rapping.
2. Time away from you
Not necessarily right now – it is the holiday season after all – but you may want to consider giving him a few extra nights with the boys for the next month or two.
Maybe let him go out drinking on a school night. Maybe cancel date night one week so that he can go watch the game or play the new Call of Duty until five in the morning.
You should never worry about giving your man a little space because giving him space will only make him want to hold on to you tighter. Thats just the way guys are.
Maybe even go one step further and actually buy him and his best friend a ticket to see their favorite team play.
3. Time with you
Space is great when space is what you want, but your boyfriend loves you, so it only makes sense that he would love to go on a little getaway together.
Maybe plan a romantic ski weekend, or take adaytripand go hiking. The winter season makes for beautiful scenery – youll both have a great time and build incredible memories.
Use the time the two of you have and make it special. Make it magical. Women arent the only ones that enjoy a bit of romance in their lives. Its just that the responsibility has traditionally fallen on men. So maybe its time for you to do some wooing.
4. A couple of “Get Out Of Jail Free” cards
Lets be honest: Theres about a 100 percent chance your man is going to end up in the doghouse sometime in the near future. Its inevitable.
We all make mistakes, but men tend to be a little less sensitive to womens feelings than women are, generally speaking, which is why so many claim its impossible to understand women.
You cant really blame him for not knowing when he says or does something stupid. I mean, you can, but you have to do it in a way that helps him learn.
Giving him a few “Get Out Of Jail Free” cards will help him understand when hes acting dumb and, at the same time, avoid irreversibly damaging the relationship.
Make sure to add fine-print though – you dont want him thinking he can get away with murder.
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